Megan Malick

Jan 13

Parents and Adult Children: What Does Being a 'Burden' Mean to You? I recently came across a poignant exchange in Man on the Inside that captures a common dynamic between parents and their adult children: Charles (Dad): “I was already sad, and I felt like there’s no reason to make [you] sad too....Read more

Parents and Adult Children: What Does Being a 'Burden' Mean to You? I recently came across a poignant exchange in Man on the Inside that captures a common dynamic between parents and their adult children: Charles (Dad): “I was already sad, and I felt like there’s no reason to make [you] sad too. You have a big full life with your job, kids, and [partner]. The last thing I want to be is a burden.” Emily (Adult Child): “But, that’s just the thing. Us not communicating is the burden. I feel the burden of not being close to you.” This struck me deeply. Parents often shield their children from their struggles, thinking they’re sparing them. Yet, adult children may feel the opposite—seeing that lack of communication as the real strain. This dialogue highlights an essential point: We define "burden" differently, and that disconnect can widen emotional gaps. 💡 For parents: Consider that sharing your life—joys, struggles, and all—may strengthen, not weaken, your bond. 💡 For adult children: Reflect on ways to create space for vulnerability in your relationship. Open, honest conversations about what being close means to each of you can transform these moments of misunderstanding into opportunities for deeper connection. How do you and your loved ones navigate this delicate balance of support and independence? I'd love to hear your thoughts. #Parenting #Communication #Relationships #Grief #FamilyDynamics

Jan 11

Grief is a natural response to loss—but it’s often misunderstood. Did you know there are different types of grief beyond the loss of a loved one? Anticipatory Grief: Feeling the weight of impending loss before it happens. Ambiguous Grief: Mourning someone who is physically present but emotionally a...Read more

Grief is a natural response to loss—but it’s often misunderstood. Did you know there are different types of grief beyond the loss of a loved one? Anticipatory Grief: Feeling the weight of impending loss before it happens. Ambiguous Grief: Mourning someone who is physically present but emotionally absent. Disenfranchised Grief: Grief that isn’t recognized, such as after retirement or pet loss. For the sandwich generation, these layers of grief often intersect with the logistics of caregiving. Managing medical paperwork, coordinating care, or navigating legal and financial responsibilities can trigger or amplify grief. It’s not just emotional—it’s practical, too. Understanding these nuances helps us support clients with compassion. Let’s start the conversation—what type of grief resonates with your experiences? 📌 Share your thoughts or experiences below.

Jan 9

Honoring Jimmy Carter: Living and Leaving a Legacy of Values As we observe tomorrow’s day of mourning for President Jimmy Carter, I’ve been reflecting on the stories shared about his life. What strikes me most is that his legacy isn’t centered on his roles but on the values he consistently lived ou...Read more

Honoring Jimmy Carter: Living and Leaving a Legacy of Values As we observe tomorrow’s day of mourning for President Jimmy Carter, I’ve been reflecting on the stories shared about his life. What strikes me most is that his legacy isn’t centered on his roles but on the values he consistently lived out through his actions. From building homes with Habitat for Humanity to championing human rights and peace, Carter embodied a life of purpose, humility, and service. His legacy reminds us that how we live our values becomes the foundation of what we leave behind. This principle resonates deeply in the work I do. Planning for emergencies, end-of-life decisions, and legacy isn’t just about preparing for the unknown—it’s an opportunity to reflect on our core values and align our actions with what matters most. When these plans are rooted in our values, they become an enduring gift to the people we love. And they also serve as a powerful motivator, reminding us why we’re doing the difficult but essential work of preparation. As we honor President Carter tomorrow, I invite you to reflect: How do your values guide how you lead, work, and live today? What steps are you taking to ensure those values are part of the legacy you leave behind? Let’s use this moment to honor a life well-lived and recommit to living—and planning—with intention.

Jan 8

🚀 Since 2020, the number of young adults aged 18–34 with a will has surged by 50%, while rates for older generations have declined. Millennials and Gen Z are proving that proactive planning isn’t just practical; it’s an act of love. Their motivations—parenthood, financial growth, and the lessons o...Read more

🚀 Since 2020, the number of young adults aged 18–34 with a will has surged by 50%, while rates for older generations have declined. Millennials and Gen Z are proving that proactive planning isn’t just practical; it’s an act of love. Their motivations—parenthood, financial growth, and the lessons of a global pandemic—highlight the deep emotional connection between planning and peace of mind. This shift is a call to action for all generations: Let’s normalize intergenerational conversations about legacy, planning, and care. Younger adults are stepping up. What has inspired you to plan for the future, or what’s holding you back? Let’s talk about it

Jan 6

✨ Thrilled to Share! ✨ I’m honored to be featured in Bold Journey, where I dive into the experiences that have shaped my purpose and the work I do today. From navigating personal losses—like a house fire, divorce, and the unexpected deaths of my parents—to transforming grief into a deeply spiritua...Read more

✨ Thrilled to Share! ✨ I’m honored to be featured in Bold Journey, where I dive into the experiences that have shaped my purpose and the work I do today. From navigating personal losses—like a house fire, divorce, and the unexpected deaths of my parents—to transforming grief into a deeply spiritual journey, I’ve learned how the logistics of loss can bring meaning and healing. Through A New Path, I help others do the same by guiding them through legacy planning, early grief support, and the emotional and practical sides of end-of-life transitions. In the interview, I also share: 🌿 How resilience, empathy, and clarity shape my work 🌿 The importance of honoring legacies through small, meaningful tasks 🌿 Upcoming opportunities, like my Planning for Peace Groups and my book, A New Path, launching February 2025 I’m grateful for this chance to reflect on my journey and invite you to read the full article here: Bold Journey Feature. Let’s continue the conversation about how we can support one another in navigating loss and creating meaningful legacies. 💛 #ANewPath #BoldJourneyFeature #GriefSupport #LegacyPlanning #HeartLedLeadership